1. The first time a man hits his wife, he looses her forever. If she forgives you, it is because of the kids and probably her values. Once these are no longer the factor(s), you become wifeless.
2. If he perceives you as a nag, you have a co wife some where…so brace up for the day of surprise.
3. The value you failed to instill in your child after the age of 7 may come back haunting you.